Hi Ray. Yes, she told me that we were going to D, that we were done and there was nothing that could be done about it, that she did not want me in her life, that she refused to talk about it, etc. Once she got around to talking about it, it was with so much venom I was shocked again. It was complete revisionist history in many ways, but also for her a huge life crisis erupting and it encompassed more than just our M, but still included her feelings about how our M was a failure at the time.

When DB says believe hslf of what you hear, take it to heart because I heard the worst, over and over again for months. I actually am suprised I survived the shock and pain. It was really, really awful.