My husband of 17 years had an affair that I discovered on our our 14th year anniversary. It had been going on for 3 years prior.
It continued for another year after I found out and he was going back and forth, it was a horrible year.
Then he decided to stay & work it out with me. he didnt see or speak to her for a year and a half. He got depressed, called her & wanted to know if the could be together in the future when our kids grw up. They are 10 and 8 now. I just had a feeling something was going on and I went there and saw his car. That's how I found out.
I want a divorce (i think). I mean, what is wrong with me that I would take this crap? I need advice please....Thank you for reading.
Seanna,
I'm sorry for your pain. Can you tell us more about the "back-and-forth" year, especially what happened immediately after HE knew that YOU knew about his affair?
Specifically, were there any boundaries that you put in place during this time, or did he just come and go (emotionally) as he pleased?
