No, I deserve the 2x4. I knew it was wrong, but I went against my gut.

Your right, I am not making him work. Well, I can't make him.

I did not initiate anything last night. It was all him. I was the one that gave in.

When I was leaving last night, I said good night and see you next week. He just had a funny look on his face. I do not plan on seeing him anymore for awhile. That is my goal. When he texts me, I am going to reply with, sorry, I have other plans.

And no, you do not sound harsh at all.


H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)