Originally Posted By: gabbysmom23
You couldn't have asked for a better response, could you?

Awesome. She even took some control and gave you a time and place. Nice!


Nope, that was awesome. My jaw dropped when I read that opening line! But I actually gave her control on time and place. I do that to make them feel more comfortable. I ask them to pick where and when they'd like to meet. I think it's a bit harder for women because, sadly enough, meeting strange men can be anxiety provoking for more than just the normal anxieties. Men can do bad things to you...unlikely, but I'm sure safety is often in ladies minds when they do these meets. I like to let them pick a place where they know the area and feel secure. It makes for a better experience all round. Giving me her cell # was an added bonus, which means she's pretty comfortable with me. I always give them mine but never ask for theirs, that's their choice and she gave it to me. Nice.


Divorced February 27, 2012.

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