I'm not going to tell you to give up or not, only you can decide that.
But.... I just want to ask you, will you be able to trust him again, even if he comes back, hat in hand, tomorrow?
As a person who is dealing with a constantly lying spouse. I mean, lies about stuff that matters and stuff that has no merit. Then there are the lies to cover up the lies.
In my sitch, even if my spouse comes back from the Middle East with all the promises in the world, I really and truly won't be able to trust him. We would really need some serious work to be able to trust again.
I am just wondering how you feel *for yourself* on that?