Enough with the lies - what is going on???

[imthemom]

Hi enough...I was reading your thread this morning and as you have heard and will hear, its truly crazy how every one of these men respond and behave the exact same way, as if they are on script that is handed out to them!!..
I think it took me about 2 months to finally get it and start detaching and only then did I begin to start getting a grip on what I was going through....I know its hard but from experience i can tell you the sooner the better. Im still not perfect at it but I dont think you ever get there. My H is still in the middle of his A and its true, nothing will change until they are over that, and nothing you do will sink in until they are. So you kinda have to ride it out i guess.

Im so sorry to see you going through this, its a painfull process but you will get a lot of advice from this board. Its a life saver!!!