Had dinner last night with H and his family. H was some whate stressed before dinner because of work and our D was a brat when he picked her from daycare. I can't wait for these terrible 2's to be over with. LOL.

During dinner, I noticed that he was relaxing a little. By the time dinner was over he seemed to enjoyed himself. We went back to his place, let D watch 30 min of TV and then we put her to bed.

After she fell asleep, then I gave him dessert. Which he said blew his mind. And then made the comment why I couldnt have been like that in our marriage. Then he made the comment that I was 2 years too late. Well, I told him it's never too late, only if he wanted it to be. He then looked away from me.

How can I make him understand that I am in a different place than we were married. I working on letting the past go. But he can't seemed to let it go.

Would it be wrong for me to tell him, yes I want to end the old marriage and would like to start a new marriage with him. How can I say this without sounding like I am pursing or putting pressure on him? I am willing to let it all go and start fresh. All I want is a chance to prove this to him. I don't want him to move back with me. All I want is to take things slow, such lets date and go from there.

Need some advice about this.


H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)