thanks 25 == her friends and family are not L's for sure. High or delusional....perhaps. I don't know her friends since before the bomb, she really didn't hang out with anyone - now she's out all the time === She's stopped going to therapy. Said she's fine and doesn't need it anymore. Oh yeah, I see that.....

got to take care of the buying the house legalities asap. Got to interview a couple more L's. Still scared as i said in earlier post that if we go to court and I lose....what if I lose my son completely? I cannot imagine a future where my son is not first and foremost in my life. He is my life - which is the way it should be for a parent. I will somehow fight until the bitter end.....and I thank you for your opinion that I can prevail. I did think my position was better than the non bio parent in the case I posted. I found the adoption paperwork where we went through the WHOLE process together. It says 'domestic partners' -- we both signed all the stuff up to the actual legal adoption. I hid all that paperwork so W can't find it just in case....


Me (f): 45
W(f) 35
T: 13 y
C: S4 adopted at birth
6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up
8-28-11 OW confirmed