W moving this weekend..next leg of my journey

[In_Shock]

Yes sayitaint so I'm afraid she's going to keep dragging this out until who knows when. Still refuses to even talk to me about what to do with S....except threw out there that she thinks it's more stable for him to be with her all the time and visit me....OK>>>> once again, I'm the primary caregiver without question. People at his preschool don't even know her. His doctor barely has met her -- I take off work when he's sick, etc.... etc....... THIS HOUSE that I am keeping is where he's lived with his mama *me* and mommy *W* since birth. \

So let me get this WAW train of thought.....let's rip him from his mama who spends at least 5 hours of quality time with him every day, takes him to school every morning and picks him up most evenings, is remaining in his stable home with his dogs, etc....... and.... well I was musing on WTF W is thinking then I got a glimpse of what is really going on. What do you guys think of this>

She said, "I've given(given???) you everything.....my house *(seriously, I've paid half the mortgage 6 years, and am buying her out, where is the 'giving') my dogs *she has not paid one single vet bill for the past 4 or 5 years pleading poverty. Who paid the bills? Um....well....take a wild guess. PLUS she's said over and over she will be glad to get to a place with no dogs to have to take care of and that have occasional accidents in the house, etc.... So she wants the dogs? Not really....Why say it?

She is furious that I am able to afford to stay here in this nice house and she has had to take a big step down. She is just so angry at me because of that. Well hell's bells...WHO IS LEAVING????? NOT ME. You leave, you make the choices...you have the consequences.

Another thing is she keeps alluding to the fact that in our house 'my stuff' infiltrated everythign and she didn't have her own 'space' Ok, so what does that mean I asked? She said it was my TV, my furniture, my this, my that..... Hmmmmm.... I make more money. I bought the things for US -- OUR FAMILY. I never considered it 'my' stuff....To me it was ours. Space? She could have had one of two different rooms to put an office in if she had chosen and made her own kind of 'cave' but she chose not to do so. My fault? I think not.

This is going to get nasty I'm afraid and well, due to my precarious legal position with S -- I'm interviewing L's but here is my BIGGEST FEAR right now...... What if I do take her to court for custody under the case I posted. What if I lose? Then W could get back at me by refusing to let me see S AT ALL.

I'm already at the point of suicidal tendencies when I think of losing so much time with him...to a woman who is gone Mondays and Wednesdays socially every week, Tuesdays and Thursdays every week to exercise classes and Saturday mornings to exercise classes. After the classes they usually socialize. Who has S? Give you one guess. Who feeds him dinner at night and breakfast in the morning? Who tells him stories before bed and dresses him for school? Give you one guess........ Is SHE thinking about the best interest of our son? You tell me.

So if we do sit down and try to figure out a temporary *before L* way to do things with him, do you guys have any suggestions??? I wanted to do a 3 days one week, 4 days the next. She said "I'm not going to go 3 or 4 days without seeing him" See--------FANTASYLAND. WTF am i supposed to say to all this? My head spins ------ WOW>