ps. When your kid was giving her ish, you should have told him to quit it - he shouldnt give his mom ish
He was joking about it but you are right. I didn't really think about it but I think part of me liked that he was calling her out on something so I didn't have to and maybe when she hears things from other people or her son she may take it more seriously. I'll have to explore this more cause I don't want to take pleasure in that type of situation.
Thanks BK, I like your idea of sitting on things for a day. Tough to do in the moment sometimes but I will try to remain as conscience as possible to refrain from digging myself into any holes.