"My wife has told me she loves me more times this past weekend then all of the past year combined. I'm certainly not immune to wanting the perfect marriage in my hands right now when she says this to me....but I chose to love her and respect her and let her take as long as she needs. I don't know if we will fully reconcile. We probably will but if not I have found a peace like never before."
Hey Rick - I've been fascinated by the evolution of your sitch. The fact that your W is professing her love for you while you are in the midst a possible divorce is unbelievable. I also applaud your new found peace and reconciliation of where you may eventually end up, (i.e. divorce land). That is a real sign of growth on your part. I'm working to get there. I'm not there yet, but getting closer!
Me51 W53 S17 S14 M22 T25 Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11
It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.
Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife