but fundamentally it seems a "marriage" counselor ought to be pro marriage for God's sake...
As I said I hope so as well. The first time we went he did right off the bat have us write down our goals or things we wanted to change in our marriage.
That seems pretty solution based, pro marriage.
I just don't know if he thinks the most important thing for any person is to be self-actualized and if one person in a marriage wants out the other should except it and move on.
He has made a lot of comments to me during my sessions about "What if" she wants D. Not sure if he was preparing me for worst, or (He knew W was going to ask for D) was preparing me to give up.
I guess a phone call wouldn't hurt?
M 33 W 29 S 4 M 5 T 7 11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents 12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over" 1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped
