Thank you so much 25, your answer helps.

I do think she knows I have genuine remorse, and the desire to be better. She has said that she wishes she could rewind time and that I shouldn't take all the blame.

During our last couple talks, I am convinced that she realizes I am changing. She has made several comments about how great of a father I have become, and that me being a better father is making her leaving easier, because she thought I would give up on S.

I think (am hoping MC is pro M. He is also my IC and he is doing a great job for me on the areas I needed.

I also have said to her I am fine giving her her space and would just like to try to continue to get help for both of us, and if possible both of us at same time.

M 33
W 29
S 4
M 5
T 7
11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents
12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over"
1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped