Yeah. I think you pretty much nailed it. You're a doormat if you feel like a doormat.
It's not so much the actions as the reason behind them.
Speaking from my own POV, I do a lot of things that other people could construe as being a doormat. I guess the reason I asked the question is that I don't believe I am a doormat.
I do what I do because I think it's the right thing to do. Not out of fear.
So for anyone who wants to tell me otherwise, I'll just refer them to you
Originally Posted By: Truegritter
the only person who can call you a doormat and have it sting will be the one in the mirror.