Our counselor liked the idea of me letting him stay in the downstairs bedroom if he's only home a couple weekends a month. I didn't like it at first, but as we talked, I realized I could potentially do it for awhile. The only problem is then I don't get my own space and time on the weekends and he can monitor what I'm doing.
Hmmm...this COULD work to your advantage. Picturing H in the basement bedroom, you going out in the evening and not coming home until VERY late. Brand new sexy Victoria's secret undies hanging up to dry in your bathroom. Staging the house so that he gets to wonder what you've been doing while he's gone.
Maybe even going out with a girlfriend and calling him later to let him know you're going to stay over at her house that night.
Note - I'm not saying to actually DO anything - just get out there and have some fun and let him wonder who might be dancing with you.
And if you don't have any single girlfriends to go out with, go sit in a bookstore or see a movie by yourself or go to a meetup.com event - but whatever you do, do it dressed to the nines and with plenty of perfume.
