Do I tell her yes - I am happy, but it is not BECAUSE you're gone
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No, let her figure it out.
Listen, why are you scared of this? You can't lose it if you don't have it, so why are you scared of losing it?
Instead of her thinking that you're the loser......maybe she needs to wonder if she's the real loser in this situation. And, she will....if she sees you being happy and being the better man that you've become. And, let's face the truth here okay? You are happier b/c she left you! If she had not left you, then you'd be the same as you were in past years. When she left you, it forced you to do something about yourself. But here's a secret.....you don't have to tell the woman that!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
