Originally Posted By: Crimson
But what if she just hates my a$$ right now?

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I guess I keep going back to the fact assumption that ... she thinks I am happy because she is out of my life ...


Of she hates your butt, right now... then she hates your butt... right now. And that is NO reason to think she will always hate your butt...

When she mentions you are happy, VALIDATE. "Yes, I am happy."

IF... IF, IF, IF she says, "I knew you would be happy without me." THEN you can mention that your happiness has NOTHING TO DO with her not being in your life.

Anything else is mind reading.