@MyK....great to see you around buddy. Even better to see you doing so well.
Originally Posted By: MrBond
So start concentrating on what you can do to continue the positive interactions with your W. You want it, you're going to have to do the work.
Thanks for the advice Bond.
After last week, I had pulled back a bit from communicating with my W.
This morning I had sent an email with the link above, about Tim Tebow to a few friends (my W included). She replied and thanked me for sending her the story and proceeded to tell me that her pastor speaking about Tebow yesterday.
It gave me the opportunity to tell her that I was impressed when she prayed for dinner one evening while I was in NM. My W wasn't a person to pray. We had a pleasant exchange.
Your advice reminded me of what my DB coach told me last year. Look at our spouses as having a Love Bank. We should make 5 positive deposits to 1 negative withdrawal. I believe that was the ratio. I try not to have any negative interaction with her.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa