If you are happy, your W won't be opposed to being around you, knowing that you aren't going to be all hound dog on her.
Once you are happy and you define the qualities of a partner that you would like to share your happy with... then YOU get to decide whether or not your W fits that bill...
IF your W fits the bill, SHE gets to choose whether she wants to share happy with you...
It is a choice that two people make as individuals... towards a mutually desired and healthy partnership...
Your W wouldn't want to be with someone who is unhappy...
and if your W is crazy enough to NOT want to be with you in your happy state... would you really want her to be unhappy in that role?
