I think gabbysmom23 answered your questions very well. Do you honestly think your wife, or any other woman, is gonna be attracted to a whiney, crying, miserable man? The answer is a resounding NO.
There is no down side to you being happy, if you are, in this situation.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
I do agree with Mach1 that you should start a new thread so that this one doesn't get locked in the middle of this topic...
Although I do also want to put yet another spin on GM and antler's comments...
Perhaps the most important thing to understand is... before you try to figure out how being happy could be attractive... it is really important for us to realize just how UN-attractive being miserable, or even slightly unsatisfied and needy, can be...
If we get rid of what is most certainly un-attractive... then we can worry about how to be attractive while being happy...
This one is gonna get locked up tighter than my ex's lingerie drawer soon...
good one
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Funny how? What's funny about it? _______________________________________________________
Rick said - every now and then you say something that really strikes me as funny - I'm giving you a compliment! A sense of humor is so essential to get through this joyous DB world.
every now and then you say something that really strikes me as funny - I'm giving you a compliment! A sense of humor is so essential to get through this joyous DB world.
