The trick, Wii - is to remain emotionally unattached. I think you get attached to the idea of these women before you even meet them. But I think you just need to try to keep it as real as you can. Chat a bit, get a feel for them then if it seems like a good possibility - ask for the meet. And it's not a date - it's a meet. Then see if you both want to meet again and maybe call it a date.
But don't sit around waiting for them.
Hey - do you have any info on getting a nurse/nanny? I was going to do that last year but ran out of time with the move. Now I'm thinking I might try it again for a few hours a day and see how it goes.
