Thank you Rick. A 2x4 is what I need. I need to regain my strength back and not let her words hurt me. I got you on the neediness especially since she knows I don't want a D. My W can be tough at times and has said some things that really hurt but I know I have to shrug it off and not go back at her so that there is one 180 for me. Hopefully one day I will have your strength. Thanks
M 44 W 43 S 23 S 15 INILWY 9/11 Divorce Mediation started 3/13 June 30 the day W is moving out