Forward, slow as she goes

[BeingMe]

Hi Mila. No, I haven't been to the lawyer yet. I did discuss it with H, and he didn't freak out like he did before. I think he would go for mediation. I don't think he knows what he wants at this point.

As for money ... I could clear out our joint account, but that wouldn't help because that pays our bills. I get money every second week, but that's for groceries. I have started saving a little from that money to pay for a lawyer/mediator when it comes time. I never ever thought, when we got married that we would have enough money to ever argue over. But, it's not the money per se, it's the lack of communication over it. The control. We should be a team, discussing all aspects of our finances, marriage, home, and so on.

I will continue with my plans to move, depending on the MRI in June, and the selling of our house.