Believe it or not, that's attractive to her. She knows you care about her and she knows you want to save the marriage...believe me. And btw, if you really are happy right now...that's a real good thing Crimson...regardless of anything else.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.