Originally Posted By: purgatory
Thanks for reminding us that there can be a light at the end of the DB tunnel.

I hope things continue to go up for you


One thing the DB book said was to keep make sure to see small positive changes, instead of looking too far ahead for the big game changes.

That's what I have been doing, and seeing changes for the better every day.

For example I picked up on this yesterday. When my W leaves a VM or is going out she says she loves me when she leaves. That is an amazing change from the bomb days. That never would have happened before.

Another thing is that we are still in different rooms but I do note that she never refers to it as her room. She just refers to it as her gallery, photo room, etc. Its a small thing but it does mean that something better than her referring to it as her room.