He is changing history when we talk and changing the things that he says to me. essentially lying to get through to the next minute. He's lying about lies and even his mom is catching him in that.
A few points about cheaters whilst they're in the throes of an affair (which your husband is):
100% of them are liars 100% of them are manipulative 100% of them lack a moral compass 100% of them are reckless with money and other behaviour pertaining to personal safety 100% of them lose their ability to empathise
Expect to witness all of this and more.
I am so sorry that you're here and know your pain. A place I never ever want to visit again.
You marriage does not stand the remotest chance whilst your husband is cheating. If, and only if, that affair is over permanently and for all time can you both rebuild. Keep reading DR - I can tell you from bitter experience, the longer you live with someone when they're doing that, the harder it gets.
If you reach that stage it's better to have little to no contact with them until/unless they're done with it.
Be strong,
GH31
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)
