Hi LITB:

Just wanted to check in see how things are going for you.
Hey it is great that the rough waters seem to have calmed down finally.

When i read your first post, i could have easily taken your name out and inserted mine. Our sitch's are very similar. Spouses who feel that they have been betrayed so bad...

Don't worry about the L or D thing. Just do what you are doing well and believe me, things will fall into place.

If someone told me last year that i could be just as happy by myself, i would not have believed them. But now, i can say...Even if the D goes through for me, I will be happier.

Good luck man!


BITS
M 38
W 36
D 7
Married 15 yrs
W left for 6 months in 2009
W Filed for D 01/03/11
piecing now...