Just wanted to check in see how things are going for you. Hey it is great that the rough waters seem to have calmed down finally.
When i read your first post, i could have easily taken your name out and inserted mine. Our sitch's are very similar. Spouses who feel that they have been betrayed so bad...
Don't worry about the L or D thing. Just do what you are doing well and believe me, things will fall into place.
If someone told me last year that i could be just as happy by myself, i would not have believed them. But now, i can say...Even if the D goes through for me, I will be happier.
Good luck man!
BITS M 38 W 36 D 7 Married 15 yrs W left for 6 months in 2009 W Filed for D 01/03/11 piecing now...