I am not worried about computer time since I never really spent that much time on it. In the contrary my W lives in front of her pc mostly for work. I think maybe is more that she sees me content which I am to a point. If she thinks I am having an A so be it. Let her wonder. But this place is a big part of my GALing so I can not stop coming here. I remember when my sitch happened she was getting TMs like crazy reading them in my presence and laughing. Not saying she is having an A. I don't think that is the case. But things have changed especially since I am not so depressed. I have not felt like crying in a month so things are looking better and can really focus on me.

One of her complaints was that I expected us to do things together. She can not complain about that any longer.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden