Just like our spouses, we can assert our desires to our Ls, but they are human and apt to do what they will do and we can't really control that. Just communicate better with them and roll with the punches that our sitches throw at us.
Thanks for chiming in KD. I completely agree with you.
We have to be mindful of what information we share. Once it leaves are lips or email accounts....it is possible to get back to our spouses.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa