The problem is that she IS cake eating. I pick her up for an hour, then W comes and takes her to her place because it is her night. Also my job requires that I work afternoons and evenings because that is the only time I can get families together for sessions. I have already cut my weekly schedule down to 3 nights a week and it can't possibly go down anymore.
I am documenting and I am letting W hang herself, but I am not going to lose my job because of her choices.
I am not trying to punish her by saying no, but I want some consistency on the agreement, otherwise I might as well have D all the time. (which I would love to have, but W would never allow).
I guess I am getting frustrated because she has changed the agreement 3 times in the last month and I have been accomadating, but I need to start looking out for myself and my career too. If I lose my job then the whole family is without insurance, and other benes., not to mention my income.
M:35 W:33 M: 5 yrs. Daughter: 2 yr .7/11/10 D Final: 8/7/12