Originally Posted By: 3am
And one more question, what about the other guys poor wife?


3,

This is a nonissue.

The only thing that will come of you telling her would be more pain for other people.

And while you don't want to hear this because you believe you would be doing her a favor, it would be pain caused by you.

If she is meant to find out, she will.

Additionally, it would simply make your situation worse.

You would be seen as interfering, controlling, manipulative, and vindictive.

Is that the picture you want to present to your W?


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