Always keep YOUR goals in front of you. When things are getting difficult and tense, lots of advice pops up and many folks feel strongly and advise others 'strongly'.
The truth is, only you know your situation. No one on the board is an expert except for Michele and the DB Coaches. Folks giving you advice only hear YOUR side of the story and only the pieces you tell. You can pick up a momentum that is hard to reverse, especially when talking about things like financial strategies.
Be careful, be wise. While it is good to focus on self care and protect yourself when you are in the LRT, focusing ONLY on your own interests may not put you in a position to save your marriage (and I'm not suggesting that you are doing that, just reading some of the advice here).
Take a step back. Assess what you REALLY want, best case. THEN plan your actions.
Wishing you the BEST.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
