WAW told me she doesn't want to be married pt3

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Had my lunch today. We met I paid for it went and sat down and just chitchatted till our food got to our table. We caught up about our families and just how we were doing. She asked me if I was on Jdate yet. I told her I was but for some reason keep getting women who I am not interested in. She told me to change my pic. I told her the one I have on there and she complimented me on the pic and how good it was and why was I getting women that were not my type. She asked if there was a way for her to put a recommendation up for me. She told me she tried out eharmony filled out the whole thing put in separated and it said couldn't find anyone for her. We laughed.
She mentioned that she knew that I spoke with our friend in LA but my W was not told any part of the conversation. She also said she knows I spoke with her dad a few weeks before. I told her that was regarding her coment about my family influencing me when it comes to the condo. If for some reason they were to find out about the OM. I told her my family has had no influence on me since May 1 when I moved out. She knows how I feel about OM and I did inform her that she deserved better. She got quiet after I said that. No I did not mean me and I think she understood where I was coming from. She got a little teary eyed.
After we were done eating we spoke about our finances and how we were going to split them up. We came to a good agreement regarding this.
I informed her about how I have spoken to my sister about coming on this site since her and her husband are having issues. We were also talking about the woman who watches our daughter. Her and her husband are having issues. She laughed at me giving advice and how good I have gotten. I told her this site has helped me so much and how I value it. We both got teary eyed when we spoke about what had happened. She informed me 90% of her private practice are couples that are separated. I wanted to say wouldn;t it be nice to be there therapist that has gone through this and come out the other side with a fixed and incredible marriage. I kept my mouth shut for now.
All in all it was a good conversation and I feel really good. This was a great weekend.
We walked to our cars and she sttoos there for a few seconds I don't know if she was waiting for a hug or something felt a littel awkward. Still felt great I really enjoyed sitting and talking with her. I would love to tell her this.