Forward, slow as she goes

[WCW]

You don't have access to money? How did you arrange for uni? how did you arrange for traveling? how did you arrange for different car?

I'm not saying you're not trying. But it does seem that when you want something enough you know how to arrange the money.

I don't think there is any problem having conversations by phone or by IM or text, although it sure leaves out the opportunity to see body language and facial expressions. My H at one time traveled a lot and many of our R talks had to be via phone. If the time is right, talk by whatever means are available if it works in your sitch.

I can't be more specific than when I say arrange for the work to be done or do the work yourself. Arrange for the money with your H, get a check and prepay. If that's what is holding you back.

I've never not lived in my home country, so I don't know that feeling. What I figure is that if you're strong enough to make the move out you have to be strong enough to deal with the consequences of the move.