the most you can realistically pray and hope for is that a seed is planted.
This is a great metaphor for where many of us are - I was already using it before coming to this site. Think of what interactions you DO get as a chance to plant a seed, or water it, in the hope that in time it will grow...
Me: 36 Her: 35 Together 7/09 Married 8/7/10 Separate rooms since at least April 11 "I've decided I want a divorce" 12/5/11 She moves out of state/files 2/7/12 Dissolution final 5/12