I had assumed you guys are in your early 20s based on your Hs behavior until I just read your signature. He is acting like he is 20.

So I am clear, you have 4 kids? Only the 3 yr old at home? Are the others supportive?

Would it be horrible to miss that dinner? Have other plans?

Me - 38, 2nd M, no living children, 1 forever 6 yr old boy
H - 44, 3rd M, twins 16

Dating 4/07
M 10/08
Bomb #1 12/10
Bomb #2 1/11
Bomb #3 12/11