OK, question from a newbie to online dating. When you are emailing a lady, how do you know when enough is enough? When a lady wants to email and seems to be asking questions in return and replying with more than a few words I carry on. After half an hour of emailing back and forth steadily last night, our last email exchange took her 20 minutes to reply to and it occurred to me that she has other stuff to do, men to browse or talk to, not just me! So I signed off and went to do other stuff. When I returned she'd answered my question and said "nice talking to you, goodnite" and was gone. I just replied "Goodnight M, have a nice day off tomorrow!" This morning I did email her some info on a bridging program for foreign nurses, just cuz I remembered it. She was a nurse back home but a live in caregiver here and not loving it! Tonight I think I'll not contact her if she's online. She only comes on between 11-12 pm daily and I'm taking up all her online time...maybe not good. I get excited about getting to know someone and it doesn't occur to me that I need to be strategic about these things...I s@ck at that lol! Anyway, I'll just leave her alone tonight and maybe tomorrow too. Let her look forward to my contact...that's my hope anyway! Usually I shoot for the coffee date after a few emails but I'm trying to take my time and try a different plan of attack. Am I on track here...'cuz I have absolutely no idea what I'm doing!?
