Here is my 2x4 –
BM, you want to hear talk in the exact words you want to hear. Instead you have to listen to the words he is saying to you.
He is clear on the car, he is clear on the house, he is clear on the 2 places, he is clear on you having your needs met, he is clear on the kids. It is only himself that he has no clue about.
You want him to love you with passion, you want to be the VIP in his life. Is he and was he ever capable of that?
If there is work to be done on the house then take charge and handle it. Call the contractors or the maids. Get it done. Get your hands dirty if that’s what it means. Do it for yourself, and for your H. Give HIM a break of having to do it all.
You’ve got the world, and you have your H. Move forward with your life and if he doesn’t come along then it sounds like you’ll still have the world without H. What’s your choice?

I agree with Beatrice, happy people are attractive. Try it.


Live your life while you are still living.
Riding the trail less traveled.