Hey Crimson...just catchino up on your thread after attending a great Patriots victory tonight.
Don't overthink things so much bud....just speak or write the truth to her......what insights you have gained regarding the issues you two had...how you would handle things better going forward and why its important to your M and families welfare.
As I read your posts I keep thinking of you as Luke Skywalker closing in on the death star and Obywans voice saying "Luke trust the force....". I think you need to trust the truth from your heart...and the divine aspect of this. Crimson Skywalker.....trust The Force.