what they said...and since you put it so well, when you said doesn't matter if he's in acceptance phase (I doubt that a lot)
but what to do...
okay so what is it you want to know? You must "Do" something? When? Why?
Let him do his work, which he has plenty of...and IF and WHEN he is ready, which he is not now
let him come to you and clearly give you a choice and then you decide if and what to do.
Right now you are guessing at what he means and decoding his comments. that's crap. He left and was terrible to you. You GAL and seem to be backsliding into his vortex
you've said things that sound as if you are a rescuer looking for a mission, or as if you are a person who wants to be with damaged goods.
there are good men out there who don't need overhauls And you have not let go of the pain he caused you, which I understand...I get that.
But there's simply no way you two are near piecing b/c all I am hearing is that your ex h is flirting with you but does not want to own his actions.
I guess I don't know what is so tempting about that, except how you feel sorry for him, which I don't find appealing in a mate.
How are your children?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
