Everwhere is walking distance if you have the time

[ClingingToHope]

I'm just not one to sit around. I feel like I'm ready for a serious R, there was just something with DHU-41 that was/is holding me back.

Maybe that will go away with time. Maybe we're through already.

But if we are through, I'll just move on looking for someone else.

I am actually encouraged so far about the choices I've made in the past 13 months.

It was December 2010 that I hooked up with a party girl and had a couple of very good times and I willingly let that one go because I didn't think I'd ever be comfortable introducing them to my daughters.

I went on a couple of lunch dates and they didn't work out.

Now this one. I really "like" her, but I'm not head over heels and I don't feel "desperate" for her.

That's major progress, I think. I remember when it was over with XW, I was very, very co-dependent.

I feel pretty good now. I'm fine by myself. Whatever happens, happens. If I have to go back on the lookout, well that's fine too. I am sure I will find someone again. Those worries have gone away as well.