Snowman, I have no problem with you being intolerant to Alcohol.
My position is, guns don't kill people.
I know people who have driven and killed people, and they (the drivers) were sober.
I know people who are dinks. No alcohol necessary.
My parents were both alcoholics. I was on that path myself. I chose a different path and mostly abstain. My father is sober 5 years now. My mother is sober for about 2 months.
If your W was not drinking, but was still behaving the same way, would you tolerate that?
Not a judgment, simply a question. Because when alcohol is the EXCUSE, then we aren't holding people responsible. And regardless of the reason or excuse, we are all responsible for our choices.
