Why dont you join a group of moms to have playdates with? Go to the library story time, a movie, museum.... get out and have fun with your D and meet people and have fun! Staying busy makes going dark a lot easier.
Me - 38, 2nd M, no living children, 1 forever 6 yr old boy H - 44, 3rd M, twins 16
Dating 4/07 M 10/08 Bomb #1 12/10 Bomb #2 1/11 Bomb #3 12/11