I understand how you feel and I had plenty of time to "catch" my W with either one of her two OM's... and I didn't...
Does that make me "right" or "better"... no... I just didn't because, in my mind... it really was pointless... it might have made me feel better in the moment, but it would have been a very fleeting moment...
Do what you feel you need to do. If you feel like confronting, then confront... if not, drive away...
Just be willing to deal with the results of what ever you choose.
If you choose to drive away... be prepared to say, "I am done snooping and chasing my H and his OW. They are free to do what they want and I cannot control that."
