So 25 and others, here are a few questions that have come to mind as I re-read what I have written to my W.
I briefly touched on a few things that I would do differently if given a second chance or a "time machine" - only like three things, maybe four. All of which are things that mattered to her at the time that I totally missed. Question is - by addressing those directly, do I make it sound like a "sales job". I.E. "I'm sorry and I would NEVER do that again."?
I also spoke a lot about our son, and how over the last 4 months it has become clear to me all that he represents in my life. I told her (and I truly mean this) that my new bond with him has made it clear that I want more children because I have realized that I get way more from him than I could ever give - and that I like the sense of purpose that fatherhood has granted me. I basically said I WILL grow my family. Should I specifically say I want to have more children and grow our family with her?? Or just leave it open ended allowing her room to conclude that she wants to be a part of it?
I don't mean to over-think, but those are two points that I am struggling with.
