I vote for DB coach to keep you on the right DB tack.
While I understand her point of view, that seems like a drastic and expensive move to get to dating. I also like Wendy's controlled separation suggestion.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss