ces, I find that the more I stop looking over my shoulder for H, the easier the path is to walk. Which only makes sense, I guess. You can't move forward when you keep looking back. That's why living in the present is so important.
I have to say that reading a lot of the threads here has been so instructive because if I keep reading the same advice over and over eventually it starts to sink in.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss