I think he is cake eating. He has his freedom and he has your support. Why would he give that up? Until he sees consequences for his actions by you going dark, stopping the long conversations, stop accepting invitations and he sees you GAL and he misses you.... He will go farther away because you are making it easy for him to leave without by being his friend. And by doing this, he loses respect for you and wont value you except for what you for him. I know its hard, dealing with that somewhat here too but if we are sad little puppies who wait for them to pet us while they go off and have lives, life and self respect will pass us by and whats attractive about that?
Me - 38, 2nd M, no living children, 1 forever 6 yr old boy H - 44, 3rd M, twins 16
Dating 4/07 M 10/08 Bomb #1 12/10 Bomb #2 1/11 Bomb #3 12/11