Your right Wendy, I think that i need a DB coach. My W just clarified what she meant... She meant that a new/ better R isn't possible until she puts the old one to rest with a D. Her idea of working on our R is simply keeping contact with me, occasional walks or coffee dates & basically just watching my progress and keeping an open mind to a "sequel" .... She is still scared that it is temporary. The changes are obvious. I guess I should be happy with this, right? I've only been home a few weeks. There is improvement in the R. Although not much that I can do to avoid the D. I'm okay with the D if it means the possibility of a fresh start .... Just have no idea how long it will take for her to realize how committed I am to improving ME. Months, years?
(F.K.A. Broken422)
US 40's M 17,T 19 2 BOYS 13,16 Divorced 4/2012 11/2011 W SAID SHE WANTS D
"When it is dark enough,you can see the stars"- Ralph Waldo Emerson
