Hi 3am, That's really encouraging stuff that she's willing to go with you and has said she wants to make it work. Good luck. I would suggest that you stay diligent to find out her issues and while you can be thankful that she is taking part in find a solution, don't get too comfortable. Stay diligent to work on the issues and show you care about being a better you for the M as well.
Good luck!
Me:45, W:45 S:16 D:13 M:22, T:25 Bomb: July 2010 Putting finances in order for "D" Continue to live in same home-separate rooms